Saturday, May 19, 2012

Life and other comedies.......

First off-  the contest.  Giving away an autographed novel, written by a talented author.  The book is Amish fiction, and the author lived that life.  How to win: Share with your friends.  Have them subscribe to the blog.  They need to subscribe, and then post here- "?" sent me.  Your name must be there so you get credit.  The person has has the most credits will win the book.  The contest will end  at the end of June, when the author will be revealed via a published interview!  {There will be 2 winners, so get busy! } lol
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Next- the Walapini is coming along.  The upper wall is in  place, and the next stage will be the roof supports, and then the roof.  He went with a flexible, reinforced plastic.  I promise pictures then.  No current work, due to his having developed Strep infection.  He is ordered a weeks rest and heavy antibiotic.
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I did want to share a timely tip with you all.  Ticks seem to be really bad this year.  In my quest to avoid harsh chemicals, I was searching for other ideas.  This one is "guaranteed" to work!   One part TeaTree Oil, and two parts water.  Put in a spray bottle.  Shake well before using.  Spray onto socks, sleeves, collars, even your pet.  Apparently ticks avoid the oil.   Im going to try it this coming week.  Let me know how it works for you!  A friend added that full strength on a tick will cause it to back out of the skin.  Much better than the old method of alcohol and matches!  Ouch!

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My son has informed me that Im becoming a hippie in my old age.  I think we agree. lol   More and more I am interested in less chemicals in my life.  Even body soap is loaded with them.  Im gathering the best of the best,and will begin to make my own.  Soaps, shampoos, body lotions, cleaning agents, laundry detergents.  Even cooking sprays!
And, Ive learned how much cheaper things can be.  That cooking spray we buy at the store?  Did you know that using 1 part oil and 2 parts water in a spray bottle is the same thing? Canola oil or olive oil are what I usually use, however even a corn oil doesnt need to be as thick to prevent sticking!  In any case, I will pass along the great ideas that Im finding.

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Tonight is the solar eclipse.  We should be able to see it well from here, however we have some rare-but-precious storm clouds.  Id rather have the rain any day!

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I will be back again soon, with new ideas and updates.  Dont forget the contest- I promise that you will be happy!!

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Common sense and large families

I read an article recently on the Duggar family.  They now have 19 children, and she recently miscarried what would have been the 20th.  The article suggested that the Duggars are wrong to have so many children, and that the children suffer for lack of attention, etc.

I read a separate article that described their budget.  It seems that they get paid for the TV show, between 25 and 40 thousand .  That was per episode or month, Im not sure now.  What an amazing amount of money!
And so, as I dont sleep at night, I find myself thinking.  You know how things wander through your mind at will?  lol

So, first- the large family.  The Duggars get no government assistance of any kind.  They pay cash for everything, and the elder children assist with the care of the younger ones. How is this wrong?  In the last century this was the norm.  Large families to share the work.  Older kids helping younger ones.  Many groups still have large families, among them the Amish, the Mennonite, some Evangelicals.  Who does this hurt?

As for the large amount of money, lets dig a little closer.  The Duggars paid cash for the home they live in.  At 7000 sq feet, it cost them under Seventy thousand.  They spend approximately $3000.00 a month for groceries, approximately $600.00 a month on utilities. They buy nothing new.  Clothes, cars, etc- all secondhand.  They make a lot of their own clothing, they make things like laundry detergent.  Excess money is invested in properties that they own and rent to others.  Seems that they are very good, budget-wise, so again, who does this hurt?

It was suggested in the first article that her miscarriage was a "sign"  that she should stop.   Who are we to say this?  It would seem to be a decision that husband and wife should make. I guess the entire article seems hypocritical to me.  We have Welfare moms with many children, and nobody presses for them to be sterilised.  That would be political suicide.  However, it is ok to discuss the Duggars and others like them.
I disagree.  It seems that there are far more important things out there to worry about, than a "larger-than-usual" family that supports itself.  Enough said.
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I have given a lot of thought lately to self-sustainability  Sometimes it is frightening how far from our roots we have gone.  I was raised in hand-made clothes, garden vegetables, farm grown meat.  Some of my earliest memories include gathering eggs.  As a  young wife and mother, I began to stray.  We tried pigs one year- what a nightmare that was!  My husband hadnt made a sturdy pen, and I found myself at 8 months pregnant, trying to capture and return 6 pigs.  Never again!

We did have our own beef, and I canned tomatos, corn and green beans.  I made jelly, and made a twice a month trip to the grocery for everything else.  I made some of my clothes, but not my husbands.  I did have a large freezer, so I made sure to keep it stocked.

Now, years later, I realize  that I havent canned for years, havent stocked a freezer, and my sewing is for enjoyment rather than necessity.  I can tell you, its a lot more expensive!  And so, since buying this property, I am re-thinking sustainability.  When all the remodeling is done, it will be easier, but for now, I pinch pennies and have a strict budget.  Ive been looking at laundry detergents,and I dont like all the chemicals, so Im making my own.  Same with shampoos and body soaps-  its a little shocking how many things are in there that we dont need on our bodies!   So I have been digging and researching to find some simple, easy and cost-saving recipes.  When I have them perfected, I will share.

I would love it if you have something that works for you- cost-savings, eco-friendly or just a good home remedy!  Please share...

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The weather is slowly getting better here.  I think it was TS Elliot who said that "The cruelest month is April".  I would agree- it teases and tempts us with warm weather and blue skies, and then takes it away with rain, snow and gray skies.  Im ready for May!

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Bad Habits....

I have some bad habits. lol   I dream big, and then procrastinate.  Im getting the sewing itch. You know the one, when you mentally see yourself being all creative, and your friends ooohing and coooing over your works of art, your family anxiously hoping the next gem is for them.

I love to sew, but I do it in spurts.  I may go months without even thinking of it, and then suddenly Im consumed with the desire to make something.  Im having a major attack now.  Quilt fever has struck.

The last full size quilt I made was several years ago.  It was a king size, and a gift for my mother in law.  I was still finishing it on Christmas Eve.  It was a star pattern, done in shades of pastels, mostly pink.  She loved it.
I have no idea what happened to it after she died, but in my mind, I still see it, and her holding it close.

Ive done several smaller ones since, baby quilts, lap robes, place mats, etc.  They were pretty, but nothing special.  So now, as the itch has grown, Ive been rifling my fabric stash again, and looking at patterns.

I want to do something different than I have done before.  So now, Im torn between two choices.  I had thought to do a Landscape quilt.  Those just fascinate me, and I might enjoy the challenge.  I had decided to do that, and was thinking of what i wanted to use, when i stumbled across a Stained Glass quilt.  Ive seen only a few of these, but they are breathtaking to me.  So, here I am, locked into indecision.

The Eagle below is a beautiful Landscape quilt. Its also fairly simple, which I love.  Only a few fabrics to work with.   Below that is the Stained Glass quilt. I have seen them both pieced, and appliqued.  They are striking both ways.  This Stained quilt appears to be Batik fabrics, but Ive seen it done in small print as well.

If and when I decide and actually begin one, I'll let you know!








Have you got a sewing or crafting itch?  Gardening?  I'd love to hear about it!
Hugs, and have a great week.

Thursday, April 5, 2012

Differences

I have a brother that is almost 8 years younger than me.  I remember the day that he and mom came home from the hospital.  My moms youngest sister was staying to help out, and she held him in the car.  I sat beside her, and remember that he was like a doll-baby.  I couldnt imagine him as a real person!

There are just the two of us now.  Mom and dad are both gone.  We live on opposite ends of the country.  I havent physically seen him since just after mom died, a couple of years ago.  But, he is my little brother.  I love him.  He holds a place in my heart that nobody else can ever hold.

My brother is intelligent, handsome, and talented.  He inspires confidence in those around him.  I have always thought of him as artistic.  He is creative, and from his ideas and hands, things are made with great beauty.  I dont have that knack.  He got it in doses.

We dont agree on everything.  In fact, we likely dont agree on many things, but I have always respected his ability to think.  We do think differently, and Im sure that we always will, but Im proud of him.

I recently read a statement that he had written.  It was political, and very well written.  He wrote that many people clamor for religion in the government again, and mourn the loss of it.  He wrote of the separation of church and state..and made a statement that I found myself in 100 % agreement.  He wrote that when people want "faith" in government, they want their own.  And he reminded how it was throughout history- the Catholics, the Jews, driven out and punished for faith.  And he suggested that Americans want faith in government as long as its "good ole basic christian no frills faith"! {My words, not his}

Im of two minds, as always.  Yes, I think that when all attempts at even a show of  faith are removed from  government, we suffer.  But, and this is the big but- maybe the right word isnt faith.  Maybe morals. Values.  I think that often when we call for faith in the White House, it isnt about going to church, but about showing morals and values.  We cry for Congress and the Senate to remember faith- but isnt it the same thing?  We want them to STAND for something positive.

For me, faith is a personal thing.  I dont feel the need to justify my beliefs to anyone.  I am as free to believe as another is to not believe.  But there are few among us who would ask for no more values, no more morals.

And so, with  those differences that my brother and I have, we also share something important.  A basic value.  Dont blame religion or faith for being or not being in our government.  If we want to blame, lets start with apathy and laziness, with pack-mentality.  With being sheep-le.  Lets remember that often we dont bother to think for ourselves when someone else has already done it.

We have the opportunity to make changes. On  both small and large scales, we can make differences by learning, sharing, envisioning.  Lets not blame it on religion or lack of it.  Vote.  Write.  Campaign.  Dont be afraid to stand for what you want.  And stop allowing ourselves to be bullied, lectured or made to feel guilty for what we want.

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I turned 56 my last birthday. Some days I feel double that! LOL   My body may feel 96, but my spirit is often 26.  I have dreams and hopes, as I did when I was younger.  They may be tempered with experience now, but they are still there.

When my son found this property, and showed it to me, I could see the possibilities.  As a former motel, it serviced the railroad.  It was built when travel to and from the valley was by railroad or days-long  by auto.  The valley here is surrounded by mountain ranges, and in winter the passes still close.  Trains, with enormous cow-catcher/snowplows were the best option.

In the attic of the property, we found boxes dating back to the railroad being built.  Most were asian names, Lee, Chen, Wong.  They worked  6 and 7 days a week, and were paid at the end of the month.  The pay registers list the wages- $2.75 and $3.00 was the average.  These were for a month.  I imagine the conditions that they had.  Extreme heat, extreme cold, the ever-present wind.  Weeks with only 1 day off.  Were their families with them?  Did they know that they built something that would still be used a hundred years later?
The train, the Rio Grande, is still used to haul freight, but now  is also a tourist option.  The steam engine goes past here twice a day, and in the summer is filled with those who want the view, the experience and the thrill.  I wonder if any of them ever think of the men who built the railroad?

I wish you all a wonderful Easter Holiday.   Hugs to you all!

Monday, April 2, 2012

A different kind of Garden

As I have written before, this area is high desert.  Its very windy, and the ground is sandy.  Its really hard to maintain a good garden here without using constant sprinklers, which is costly and inefficient.
Yet, nothing is so good as tomatos from your own garden, fresh onions and cucumbers. So how to make the wants match the  realities?  My son at first looked at greenhouses, but the wind here  would make that difficult unless it was all glass, which is a huge investment. 

Now, here on the property there are a couple of unique structures.  Deep holes, dug into the ground, laid with railroad ties.  These pits are large, approximately 16x24 x7 deep.  Apparently the original purpose when installed some 50 years ago was to be holding tanks for water, for the pond that was here, possibly for fire safety as a fast source.  This  is a view of the one he is currently working on.  You can see the cross beams that have been knocked down in.  His goal is to clean them out, cover the walls with landscape fabric, possibly the floor too.  One side, facing south, will be lowered a bit.  He has begun to dig into the east side for a walk in doorway.

So what does this have to do with a garden?  Everything!  Im adding links to 2 sites.  The first, a walipini, is basically his inspiration.  These are being used in Brazil, in conditions similar to ours with huge success.  The second, is a garden-pool, using a swimming pool as the "hole".  He plans to combine these ideas, and with luck will be able to have a year round garden!  The websites are worth checking, as they are amazing!
http://bensoninstitute.org/Publication/Manuals/Walipini.pdf
http://gardenpool.org/

Sustainability is becoming more and more important.  Prices are rising, and the quality of what we purchase may not always be best.  Im excited to see this project grow.  I promise to keep you posted!
This third link is not really what he is planning, but the same basic idea.
http://earthbagbuilding.wordpress.com/tag/walipini/
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It is really windy here today, the winds are at 70 mph.  Rain and snow expected tonight.  How wierd, when it was 70 on Saturday!  As of last night the huge fire was still at 90% containment.  This rain will go a long way to ending it, and deadening the hot spots.

Keep all those folks in your hearts, and hope for no more threatening fires this summer.



Saturday, March 31, 2012

A Saturday Ramble

I got in to town today.  The thrift store here has paperbacks for under a dollar.  Most look as if they have never been read.  Then a trip to Walmart to use a birthday gift-card.  Fabric on special promotion, $1.50 per yard!  I see quilting in my future.   I love a bargain.  Im happier with cheap fabric and books than with expensive jewelry.   I enjoy researching, checking, and finding a deal.  Its fulfilling, its challenging, and its savings.

When I was working for, and then later owning a travel agency, I enjoyed passing that on to my clients.  A good agent knows when and how and who.  My son has strongly suggested I work again at it....since he hears the complaints from his co-workers on the so-called bargains they get.  I must admit Im tempted.  I can do it from home, and since I love traveling, its a fun thing that never feels like work.  I have the credentials and the knowledge....so, why not?

Of course, in my  fantasy life, Ive been an author, a clothing designer and more.  Isnt that the fun part of age, that we can dream of all the things we may still do?  I think Im a Jill-of-all-trades.  Ive worked in the medical field, wrote for a newspaper, worked in marketing, been an auditor, a travel agent, and a hotel manager.  Interesting to me is that the same skill sets were used in each.  Attention to detail.  Friendliness.  A willingness to think outside the box.  I found that the hardest part in each of these jobs was to find people to employ.  People are so structured that they often cant see what isnt right in front of them.  Or they wont stretch and take chances.  Or they are so unhappy within themselves that they carry it around all the time and appear unfriendly.  Its amazing to me that intelligent people dont seem to feel the need to follow procedure- not if they can "band-aid" it and call it done.
So where is the fault in all this?  Is it the education system?  Is it the social push to conformity?  Is it that responsibility is something that is no longer emphasized?

I heard a speaker from my church, who made this statement.  "Children dont always hear what we say, but they see what we do."  Wow.  For some reason, that was a "lightbulb, ka-ching" moment for me!  I remember myself as a child,  ignoring my parents, even as they called to me.  Its what kids do.  But I also remember in the evening after dinner, mom and dad would gather in the living room and read.  Dad with his farm magazines, mom with her novels and  magazines.  I dont remember them ever saying anything about reading, but my brother and I both are  read-a-holics.  I was reading on my own at 5, and I think my brother was about the same age.  I devour books.  Good or bad, I cannot put a book down once Ive begun it.  And Im one who cant stand to turn corners down or break the spines.  LOL   Isnt if funny how we are ingrained in our ways?

Our bit of excitement last night  was a grass fire in the field behind the property.  Its in the midst of nothing, so Im sure that kids probably started it.  Called the fire department and they came and put it out.  It was maybe a quarter of a mile from our property line, but in dry grass, it can quickly grow out of control.  The large fire here in Colorado that I wrote about the other day is 90% contained now.  They are hopeful to get it out completely by tonight.  So thankful that no more lives were lost.  Its tragic for the 4400 hundred acres, the 2 dozen homes and 2 lives lost.  A woman is still missing, but it could have been so much worse!

Have a great weekend, and dont allow yourself to be an April Fool tomorrow!

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Tornados and Firestorms

I was born and raised in beautiful, lush, wet and green Ohio.  Just a skip and hop away was the largest Amish/Mennonite community in the United States.  Holmes, Tuscarawas and Wayne counties, primarily.  The groups are Old Order, New Order, Swartzentruber, Amish-Mennonite, Mennonite and more.  While the Amish are a major tourist attraction, there are also great fishing and boating lakes, wonderful parks, easy access to cultural opportunities, world class zoos and amusement parks.  Lets not forget History- settlement communities, archeological dig areas, early canal travels and more.  Ohios slogan used to be "Ohio-the heart of it all".  In many ways it still is that.  Both an industrial and agricultural biggie, Ohio plays a large part in the economy of the country.  Needless to say, I love Ohio.
Ohio is also a place that tornados frequent, blizzards are well known, power-outages and floods are common enough that most people are fairly blase' about them.

Contrast that to Colorado, my current home.  High-desert mountains, where skiing and hiking take advantage of the over mile high areas.  River and lake fishing is good, and the easy way to tell a visitor to the state are the altitude-sickness symptoms.  Headache, tiredness and lack of appetite.  Colorado is a home to cowboys, elk and moose, bears and mountain lions.  People here think nothing of driving a couple hours to go to the mall.  And 60 mph winds are considered "gusty".    Even with all the snow here, we never have enough water.  Our water, by centuries old contract, goes to Texas, California, Arizona.  Our grass is rarely green, unless artificially watered.  Usually the color is a greenish brown.  Sagebrush, taking the form of tumbleweeds bounce even into the city.  The sun shines approximately 350 days per year here.  In the summer it can reach the low 100's.  With next to no humidity, it doesnt feel that hot.  And in the winter, 10 below is common, with the wind chills factored in to feel like 40 below.

The thing that is feared most here is fire.  Once it catches, the ever-present winds take it and run.  The terrain of the mountains can make it hard to battle, and so many of us out here have built our homes into the woods, where a strong fire can take them in one gust.  There is currently a fire of over 4000 acres burning.  It has taken at least 2 dozen homes.  Two people have died, and one is missing.  There are over 500 firefighters on the job, battling this now for 4 days.  As of this morning, only 10 to 15 percent is contained.
What I would give for the green and water from Ohio.  And yet, Colorado has a beauty unlike anyplace else.  It is a state of constant surprise, from tiny towns with amazing museums, to ancient dwellings.  Adobe churches and homes in various state of disrepair, and modern structures that would look in place back east in the capitol cities.


I find myself so grateful for the opportunities Ive had to see so much of the world.  To see the beauty of such diverse areas, and yet Ive also realised that nothing is as good as home.  No matter where home is, its always wonderful to get back.  Something about the security of being with our own things, the comfort of familiarity.


Keep those who are affected by the fires in your hearts, and look around at your own "comfort and security".  Have a wonderful day!


Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Rambling thoughts

I have been re-reading some favorite authors. Most recently Ann Rule.  If you havent read her, you should. She is a crime writer, with a twist- her stories are about real people, and real crimes.  Ann Rule was a writer on a newspaper.  At one time she worked side by side with Ted Bundy, thinking him a nice, regular guy.  She eventually got the police beat, and when Bundy was later on trial, got an exclusive interview with him.
Ms. Rule writes about the dark side of humanity, without sensationalizing it.  You read the story, and see the layers of the criminal, as they go from human to villain.  When you read about Ted Bundy, you see what a likeable, intelligent man he was- and wonder why he chose to be a murderer.  In "Last Dance, last chance" you read of a narcissitic surgeon who nearly destroyed everyone who cared for him, in his effort to be famous.  Ann Rule allows us to see the humanity, and the evil in the same person.  It isnt light reading, but well worth it.

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We have fires here in Colorado.  They say that it began as a controlled burn, with some stray sparks.  On the 3rd day now, it is 0% controlled, and about 4000 acres.  Approximately 30 homes are gone, close to 1000 people are displaced.  There are few deaths, however cadaver dogs were taken in this morning as a woman cannot be found.  Keep these people in your hearts and prayers.

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I keep a mental prayer list....and often during the day I will recall it and offer prayer for those needs.  How do you handle your prayer lists?  Do you write them down?  Do you make your prayers at night, or morning?  I love that so many on Facebook use "pokes" for prayers.  What a great way to acknowledge someone..and to ask for prayer!

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Tonights dinner is beans and ham.  Ive been soaking the beans all night, now I will get them into the crockpot with chunks of ham.  My family loves this.......comforting, filling, and really easy.  I try to make lists  of my meals for the next week.  Sometimes I do much better at planning than others.  We arent big on desserts, but Ive been in a mood for cake, so Im thinking its time for pineapple upside down cake!
Whatever you are having, enjoy.  Gut Essen!!



Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Tradin Talk

Renewed-  a defunct blog that Ive revived.  Ive learned that it isnt about the destination, but about the journey- and I am still on my journey.
Recommendations, Thoughts, Reviews, Recipes and Ideas.  A good place to gather my "woolen" thoughts and share.

I've been thinking about expectations.  So often we think we know about things based on the visual.  But we see only the surface.  We fail to look deeper, and in doing so, we shortchange ourselves as well as others
This link is a perfect example:http://www.godvine.com/Shy-Boy-and-his-Friend-Shock-the-Audience-with-The-Prayer-Unbelievable-1318.html

Those first impressions can sure be wrong..........